Is there a way to manage sql server express db, remotly, without installing a software.
As a portable apps or a web admin (like phpmyadmin)
There are a couple of web based tools, but last I looked at them they were pretty old and feature incomplete. You really should be using the SQL Server Management tool that comes with SQL Server. There is a downloadable version that can be installed, but you will need admin rights to install it on your machine.
There is no cost to installing SQL Server Management Studio on your computers, so there is no license to worry about purchasing.