SQL Server uses statistics to determine an execution plan. If an index is available, so are statistics, and SQL server will determine the path of least work. This could be using the index or doing a table scan.
In your example SQL server has determined that a table scan is less work than doing an index seek and a bookmark lookup.
What you can see is that one of your querys is "less selective", ie it probably updates more records, meaning that more bookmark lookups are needed to satisfy the second query. SQL server just estimated that for that query the sum of index seeks + bookmark lookups are more work than simply doing a table scan.
Since SQL server reads entire pages, and not records, your query (as indicated by statistics) needs to be selective enough for the index to be used, if SQL server estimates that it's going to have to read every page anyway it will go for a table scan.
See herehere and herehere for a more indepth explanation with sample data and results