I use the following statement to monitor activity in SQL Server (This is out of some book)
SELECT
des.session_id ,
des.status ,
des.login_name ,
des.[HOST_NAME] ,
der.blocking_session_id ,
DB_NAME(der.database_id) AS database_name ,
der.command ,
des.cpu_time ,
des.reads ,
des.writes ,
dec.last_write ,
des.[program_name] ,
der.wait_type ,
der.wait_time ,
der.last_wait_type ,
der.wait_resource ,
CASE des.transaction_isolation_level
WHEN 0 THEN 'Unspecified'
WHEN 1 THEN 'ReadUncommitted'
WHEN 2 THEN 'ReadCommitted'
WHEN 3 THEN 'Repeatable'
WHEN 4 THEN 'Serializable'
WHEN 5 THEN 'Snapshot'
END AS transaction_isolation_level ,
OBJECT_NAME(dest.objectid, der.database_id) AS OBJECT_NAME ,
SUBSTRING(dest.text, der.statement_start_offset / 2,
( CASE WHEN der.statement_end_offset = -1
THEN DATALENGTH(dest.text) ELSE der.statement_end_offset
END - der.statement_start_offset ) / 2 + 1)
AS [executing statement] ,
deqp.query_plan
FROM sys.dm_exec_sessions des
LEFT JOIN sys.dm_exec_requests der
ON des.session_id = der.session_id
LEFT JOIN sys.dm_exec_connections dec
ON des.session_id = dec.session_id
CROSS APPLY sys.dm_exec_sql_text(der.sql_handle) dest
CROSS APPLY sys.dm_exec_query_plan(der.plan_handle) deqp
WHERE des.session_id <> @@SPID
ORDER BY 3
Some activities are not shown here: create index, alter table...
How to monitor all activities in SQL Server? (Activity Monitor/Profiler is no option - only plain T-SQL, no sysadmin - only view server state)