My change request to patch 3 SQL instances on the same server was denied because of one instance - they say a server reboot is fine, but not a few hours downtime.
Seeing as each instance is standalone, should it not be fine to patch 2 instances and leave the third?
I see there is a 'shared components' feature - what is this exactly, is this down for all instances during the patching, and does it matter?
How can I assuage the fears of my colleagues that the third instance will still be working - the business are not willing for it to go down even for a couple of hours in the evening.