Postgres 9.2 allows you to use string_to_array and unnest, you can use it to get the desired result.
create table foo(id int, allowed_types varchar(256)); insert into foo values (1, '3,4,5,13,14');
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1 rows affected
with a as ( select id, unnest(string_to_array(allowed_types, ',')) elem from foo ) select id, string_agg(elem, ',') from a where elem not in ('4','5') group by id
id | string_agg -: | :--------- 1 | 3,13,14
dbfiddle here