i can not connect to mysql server from a remote computer, when i try to connect it gives me the error "Host '' is not allowed to connect to this MySQL server", i've edited the mysql server my.ini file by changing the bind line from #bind = "127.0.0.1" to bind = *, i've turned off the firewall of the client machine trying to access the server, i also gave full privilege to the user of mysql database through which am trying to connect to the server by using the mysql grant command,but nothing seems to be working, please help me

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