Deadlock free MERGE-alike in MySQL?

Question

I am trying to implement some parts of MERGE in the MySQL driver in Drupal. Of course, Drupal has something but in truth it only works because the most frequent MERGE issuer just eats exceptions.

So, whatever we try, deadlocks occur. What we do, we start a transaction, then SELECT ... FOR UPDATE, try an INSERT and if it causes an 23xxx integrity error try an UPDATE instead. Deadlocks. We removed the FOR UPDATE cos we decided that for our use, it's OK. Still deadlocks.

I can't just switch isolation levels because READ COMMITTED needs row logging per SET TRANSACTION:

As of MySQL 5.1, if you use READ COMMITTED [...] you must use row-based binary logging.

And per READ UNCOMMITTED also needs row logging. And here comes Binary Log Setting:

To change the global binlog_format value, you must have the SUPER privilege. This is also true for the session value as of MySQL 5.1.29.

I can't require every Drupal setup to have SUPER nor we can say that Drupal is incompatible with statement based binlogs when that's the default and the most widespread.

INSERT ... ON DUPLICATE KEY is neither versatile enough nor is it deadlock free.

So what now?

Answer 1

If possible, write a Stored Procedure to encapsulate the entire task. And deal with exceptions. Then have Drupal call the SP.

Answer 2

Regarding the statement below:

To change the global binlog_format value, you must have the SUPER privilege. This is also true for the session value as of MySQL 5.1.29.

You do not need to give SUPER privilege to Drupal since the above statement only applies if you want to change the binary log format at runtime.

Here is what you need to do:

You can select the binary logging format explicitly by starting the MySQL server with --binlog-format=type.

You can read more about Setting The Binary Log Format in the MySQL manual.